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Do you have good relationships with your siblings ?

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Gwenn ❓
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That's awesome ! Do you have other siblings ?
5̀øÑ͜ ̕0f Æ̨ ğłīťç̴H
The best I would say.. I never had a fight with them.
5̀øÑ͜ ̕0f Æ̨ ğłīťç̴H
Which may appears from that I don't have any😔
Gwenn ❓
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Do you wish you had any siblings?
5̀øÑ͜ ̕0f Æ̨ ğłīťç̴H
Gwenn ❓, yes would've been cool I guess. A twin would've been the best possible outcome.
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Gwenn ❓
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5̀øÑ͜ ̕0f Æ̨ ğłīťç̴H, I would have loved it as well ! I think that everyone would have loved to have a twin because it's the opportunity to have a sibling that has the same age, that has been through the same experiences, that almost thinks the same way you do ; in short, it's the opportunity to have someone that understands you and to whom you can relate and trust. 🤗
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Rufus Kohn
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I still have four sisters and three brothers. I love them all dearly. Some communicate easier than others and some are more active and inviting to undertake new things. So some stay out of view for longer times and some I see a few times a month
Gwenn ❓
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I saw your card here you went to the museum with one of your sisters, it looks as if you get along very well with each other ! 🤗
Zênite
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Not at all.
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Gwenn ❓
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Has it always been that way ?
Zênite
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Gwenn ❓: No, we were very close as children and helped each other. In time we grew ever so slightly apart, but it was just a couple of years ago that things took a sudden turn for the worse for pretty bad reasons. Long story short: He became a fash. Literal self declared fash. Racist, lgbtphobe, elitist, xenophobe etc. Full package. I will never allow someone like that to be close to me.
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Gwenn ❓
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Zênite, Wow it's quite surprising. It's quite puzzling to see that people who were educated in the same way can grow to be so different.
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Zênite
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Gwenn ❓: Oh, you have no idea. We're so different in almost everything my mother thinks a lot of those are on purpose to antagonize me. Not that I woukd be surprised if she were right. Luckly for everyone involved he knows what's gonna happen if he shows up to any family gathering with a swastika...
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Gwenn ❓
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Zênite, is he younger than you ?
Zênite
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Gwenn ❓: Nope, older.
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Gwenn ❓
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Zênite, I was about to say that he may have grown up in opposition to you, but if he is older maybe it's you that did grow up in opposition to him
Zênite
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Gwenn ❓: Not really, I stablished my political positions way before he did. In fact he started going to the right wing years after I was already a leftie.
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Nina One
Zênite, it seems to happen at any age. I have a cousin who used to be a defense lawyer. He switched to the prosecution side and at the same time switched his politics all the way to the right. Horrifying, really.
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Jale
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Don’t have siblings 😀
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Gwenn ❓
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Have you ever wished to have siblings ?
Jale
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Gwenn ❓, yeap, I would like to have a brother ☺️
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Gwenn ❓
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Jale, I have an older brother, he is an awesome being, an awesome friend, and an awesome sibling.
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Jale
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Gwenn ❓, ohhh how sweet 😊 At least I have cousins who I call *brothers* and I am their older sister 😊
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Infidel Castro
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Gwenn ❓, when I was really little I wanted a black sister. I dunno why
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Jale
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Infidel Castro, I have a black doll btw 😂
Infidel Castro
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Jale, is she available?
Jale
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Infidel Castro, haha yeah she is single 😄
Infidel Castro
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Jale, is the owner?
kallzo
Yes...
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Gwenn ❓
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That's great !
Gwenn ❓
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That's awesome !
Nina One
I didn’t use to get along with my sister. Now I’d say we’re close.
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Gwenn ❓
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What has changed ?
Nina One
She’s six years older, and a powerful personality. It took a while for us to be on an equal footing; well into my 30s.
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Gwenn ❓
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Nina One, My sister and I have both strong personalities as well, I guess that's why we argue so much 😅
Obtiks
yup, very good...
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Obtiks
Gwenn ❓, ☺️
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Black Widow (Missy)
I’ve always been close with my brother, but I didn’t get close with my sister till I was 18.
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Gwenn ❓
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It's almost the same for me, but I guess that in my case it's because we have a big age difference.
Bravefoot
I only have a sister and... well, she’s my sister, not much to say. We’re not super close, I actually act around her like I would act around an acquaintance I would be polite with 😅
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Gwenn ❓
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It's the same for me and my sister, she is 13 years older than me so we didn't live under the same roof for a long time and we don't share tight bonds.
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Bravefoot
Gwenn ❓, oh wow, that is quite a difference! I only have 4 years difference with my sister, and lots of people think we’re twins since (apparently) we look alike... so it’s kind of strange our relationship is not as close as they believe it is 😂
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Gwenn ❓
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Bravefoot, My sister and I look a lot alike as well (we both look like 16 years old teens even though I'm 19 and she is in her thirties 😅) but our personalities couldn't be more different !
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Viqueen
Yes, it's great to have a sister. I also have three very close friends since early childhood, but a sister is somebody I can rely on to have my back no matter what.
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Gwenn ❓
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I have that kind of relationship with my brother, he matters a lot to me and he used to be my role model. 🤗
Panni
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I’m not very close with my brother, we of course love each other as siblings but I don’t really see him that often.
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Gwenn ❓
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I understand, I am in the same situation with my sister. Do you wish anything changed or are you ok about your relationship ?
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Infidel Castro
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Nope, bad eggs exist
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Obtiks
are you the bad one?
Zênite
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Pretty much the same thing for me.
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Gwenn ❓
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Why "bad eggs" ? Have you always had bad relationships with your siblings ?
Infidel Castro
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Gwenn ❓, yup
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Gwenn ❓
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Infidel Castro, Would you like to change it or are you ok with how it is ?
Infidel Castro
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Gwenn ❓, he's pretty psycho, so not really, no. Runs in the family on both sides
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Xixixi 🍀❓
Yes, I wouldn‘t like to miss my (little?) brother.
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Gwenn ❓
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That's great and cute ! 🤗
Unknown
No. Considering I only know 4/10ths of my siblings, and get along with 1 of the four whilst barely knowing anything about the other 3. No.
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Gwenn ❓
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Do you have any regrets about it ?
Unknown
Gwenn ❓, No. That's how my parents raised me. It was not a loving family. We were expected to all keep to ourselves
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Fatima
Yeah.. and I’m very grateful to that ❤️
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Gwenn ❓
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That's awesome ! 🤗
Atif Ayyaz
Yes, especially with my brother
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Gwenn ❓
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Same for me !
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The Red Girl
Pro Creator
I love them very much, we do often clash because I am a bit different from them all, and I know my life would probably be easier without them in it constantly, but well I still want to be there for them. I have a good one on one relationship with each but if all 4 of us are together we are either great or 2 on 2 arguing. I don't really have a relationship with any of my step siblings
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Gwenn ❓
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I understand, it's the same for me with my brother : we have a really tight and awesome relationship (he has been my role model for years, and I almost held him as a 3rd parent) yet we are always arguing ! 😅 I guess it's because we are expecting a lot from each other.
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heisenberg
Yes. A better to my brother than to my sister but all in all we are there for each other when it's needed!
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Gwenn ❓
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In your opinion, why do you have a better relationship with your brother ?
heisenberg
Because my brother and I are only 4 years apart and my sister and I are 9 years. In addition to that I was the "little prince" of the family (the youngest and last child) and the main part of the work in the household always got stuck on my sister and my brother and I almost never needed to do anything. My brother got along pretty well with it and was smart enough to arrange deals with me. He took me fishing, for example, when I empty the dishwasher for him and so on. My sister just hated me for it and I accepted it... Somehow it's understandable. But somehow she doesn't get over it anymore.
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Gwenn ❓
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heisenberg, Well that's the exact opposite for my family ! My older sister was very very spoiled, my brother had a strict education and mine was more balanced. Sometimes I'm shocked by how my sister behave with my mother 😅
heisenberg
Gwenn ❓, do you just said I was spoiled? xD
noodleloaf
Pretty much.
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Gwenn ❓
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That's great ! Are they herbivorous potatoes ?
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noodleloaf
Gwenn ❓, I think they're omnivorous actually!
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reiningfyre
My parents didn't think I deserved any siblings.
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Gwenn ❓
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So I guess you would have loved to have siblings ? 😁
Joshy1988
Yep. Well, most of the time
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Slowdowngandhi
I have 3 half siblings. Each relationship is different
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Gwenn ❓
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Do you have a favourite ? 😜
Gwenn ❓
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Slowdowngandhi, Do you think you're his/her favourite as well ?
Slowdowngandhi
He has only one half brother 🙃
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Slowdowngandhi
Ok...so...all three are half my age. it's bc I grew up with him in the same household. I saw him grow up for some time. It's funny to see/but also worrysome kind of thst he does the exact same stuff I did a teenager. I influenced him in some ways. And we share some traits like the stubbornness and the naive believe thst everything turns out well in the end (even though I'm a pessimist myself), he also is more aware of social topics than the other siblings. The other two basically grew up in a golden cage compared to myself at that age. I have a kind of strong emotional bond to my sister, though. She's a very kind person but unfortunately extremely this prototype of a instagram cliché (today my father sent me a video..she apparently was in German tv and I didn't even know).. My other brother...well...I guess it's more positive than negative. There's just no close relationship. He was kind of nerdy when he was very young like myself but since then he changed...not for the better...uuugh...I dunno. He's still a teenager but I know that I would have not liked him at his age. The kind of fancy clothes, ignorant bc I grew up with a silver spoon guy.
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Gwenn ❓
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Slowdowngandhi, Your relationship with your half brother reminds me of the relationship I have with my older brother : we act a lot in the same way and he often tells me how much I behave like he did when he was my age. It is mainly because he has always been a role model for me, maybe your brother sees you as a role model as well 😊
Slowdowngandhi
I guess it's all a matter of perspective. I hope he ignores my bad stuff, though. Why is he your role model?
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Gwenn ❓
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Slowdowngandhi, He is really smart, way above average, yet he isn't the kind of smart guy that is smug and contemptuous : he's very humble and willing to share what he knows with the others. He has always been sympathetic, nice and thoughtful without ceasing being reasoned. He is a really logical, wise, sensible, open-minded and considerate person and I'm trying my best to behave that way 🤗
Slowdowngandhi
Gwenn ❓, sounds like a0 good role model for all of us 🙂
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🚀 Josh
Meh. I see my half sister often enough as she comes to visit my mother who lives next door. My full sister is overseas and communicates primarily by Dumbook so we don’t stay in touch. I’ll see her next week for the first time in years.
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EllaEnte (90%)
no, is differentiated 🙁
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PlagKeeper
I uh I barely know her I’ve never seen her in person when I was a kid but I’ve always hated her
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Alco the Beog
Why's that? ?🐻¿
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PlagKeeper
Alco the Beog, I I just have always hated her considered her a bastard child
Mac Vogt
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Yes kind of. Recently we had a crisis where my sister won't talk to me because I think she's gone totally overboard on social justice. It made me sad. Bad ideology.
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Gwenn ❓
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What do you call going totally overboard on social justice ?
Mac Vogt
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Gwenn ❓talking about it constantly, throwing shade on everyone in this pretty paranoid way. I think she's making herself really unhappy.
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Gwenn ❓
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Mac Vogt, I think "social justice" issues are really important and we have to talk about it if we want to live all together, but if it goes to the point that she became paranoid, as you say, then it's truly troublesome... Do you know why she became paranoid ? Maybe something happened to her, or something that happened to someone else shocked her to the point that she's kind of "traumatised" ? If it is the case I think she needs your support, that way she will know that even though you don't share the same ideas/ideology she doesn't need to be paranoid around you or other people. 🙂
Mac Vogt
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Gwenn ❓, Maybe so, and I tried reaching out -- I think it has to do with these echochamber technologies. If you are surrounding yourself with sensational, outrageous info all day, if you really think the world hates you.. I don't really trust the ideology tbh, I've been traumatized myself by it. It's a world full of gossip and policing. Ugh it makes me so sad.
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Gwenn ❓
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Mac Vogt, I think the best thing to do is to talk about it with her... Nevertheless if she doesn't want to talk about it I don't know what else you could do... 😕 At least you tried and did your best
Mac Vogt
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Gwenn ❓, yeah I think the ball is in her court. I can't force her to talk to me. But that's what I said, I think we just need to, non combatively, just speak about our worldviews and naturally connections and understandings are made. 😑
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Mac Vogt
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Hyde
For the most part as long as we are not working together.....we each like things done our own way. For the most part it is positive just small squabbles over petty stuff.
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Hyde
I am the second of 4 boys, so I have 3 brothers.
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Gwenn ❓
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Do you have a favourite ? 😁
Hyde
Gwenn ❓, not really. My relationship is different with each one, but they are each equally and very valuable to me.
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Hyde
Hyde, interestingly enough i did find out a few years back, that i have an older sister.
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Gwenn ❓
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Hyde, were you happy about it?
Hyde
Gwenn ❓, it's doesn't bother me either way. My dad was happy to finally meet her and establish a relationship with his daughter. His 1st wife *my sister's mother* disappeared with her while he was in vietnam. He knew she existed but was unable to find them when he came home.
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Gwenn ❓
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Do you wish your relationship with your siblings was different ?
Gwenn ❓
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Would you like to have siblings?
Crazee Girl
Gwenn ❓, not really to be honest As I had very very many friends when I was growing up so you could say I had the best of both worlds Have my friends when I wanted Have my own space when I wanted And there is a saying you cannot chose your family but you can chose your friends
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zvati
Generally yeah
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Gwenn ❓
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Do you wish it was different?
lizard Queen
No. My younger sister is mentally ill and refuses help and our younger brother has been in and out of jail.
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Gwenn ❓
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How do you feel about this ? Are you okay ?
lizard Queen
Gwenn ❓, yep. Not my fault and I can't fix them so I live far away and focus on my own family. I used to worry and fret over it and it didn't fix anything so I just stopped.
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Gwenn ❓
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lizard Queen, I think you made a good choice
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Zênite
Pro Creator
Gwenn ❓: As a psychologist: Yeah, she probably did. Unfortunately sometimes we just can't help others as much as we wanted.
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Gwenn ❓
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Zênite, I fully agree !
lizard Queen
Gwenn ❓, I come from a culture that doesn't agree. They believe family should always been forgiven and welcomed no matter what. I disagree.
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Zênite
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lizard Queen: Must have been tough dealing with that. Where are you from?
Gwenn ❓
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lizard Queen, I think family is important, but not as much as a person's well-being. If one's well-being is compromised by his/her family he/she has to go his/her own way.
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Hyde
There does come a point in every toxic relationship where you just have to walk away. The relationship *might* can be re-established if the other truly changes.
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lizard Queen
Zênite, Appalachia
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