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Photo #1 from Amsterdam, Netherlands by Rufus Kohn made on 2018-12-23 17:17 for Sola

So I'm back for one day. Not just any day but for the last Randomlives23 of the year.

This photo is of the flowers my colleagues sent me as comfort after loosing my little brother last week. Sam caught a flesh eating bacteria and that left him in coma within one day. After two days on intensive care he past away.

The bacteria is quite common and lives in most people in the through. If it nestles I never the skin it starts spreading like wild fire and leaving toxins that make the organs shut down. Especially when someone is weak and more prone to infections.

I will mis him a lot. Bye bye Sam

And bye bye Sola as after today I am out again.

Photo #2 from Amsterdam, Netherlands by Rufus Kohn made on 2018-12-23 17:17 for Sola

With family and friends we lit a fire on the beach for Sam after the funeral.

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José Zueco...™
😢😢😢 sterkte...
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Rufus Kohn
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Dank je José.
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Viqueen
So sorry about your loss. 😥
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Rufus Kohn
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Sorry that I hit you guys with this in such a merry season. But know that it helps to share. Thanks for your support
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🍼🏍🔥Garsbriel❓
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Rufus Kohn I'm almost sure that all of us are ready to help you more, if only we could do something for helping you. Here you always will find some free hugs.
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Oktober
My condolences.
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Rufus Kohn
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Thanks Oktober
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Freistaat
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Oh, Rufus, how terrible. My sincere condolences.
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Rufus Kohn
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He had a very full life always rushing into trouble wherever he was. But also spoke direct to people's heart and he was close to people that way.
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Panni
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I’m so sorry to hear Rufus! My deepest condolences to you and your family!
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Rufus Kohn
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I have a rather big families. 4 sisters and now 3 brothers. All pretty much leading our own lives. This did bring us all together in a berry meaningful way.
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Panni
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Rufus Kohn, I see, on the picture. I hope it was time of good memories and shared emotions. ❤️
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Sedna
My condolences. I wish you and your family strength to get through this difficult time.
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Rufus Kohn
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We are now picking up the peace's. Taking care of each other and especially of Sam's son. He is studying and not independent yet.
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Sedna
Rufus Kohn, thankfully you have such a great family.
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RozziRoo
So sorry for the tragic loss of your brother 😢
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Rufus Kohn
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I know how this he will be missed long long from now and in that he lives on. Thank you.
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ml3269
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Oh no... Rufus. This is sad. I wish you all the strength for the next week and months.
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heisenberg
I'm really sorry about your loss, Rufus. Can not imagine how hard it would be to lose my brother..
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Rufus Kohn
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Sam was an alcoholic for most of hes life. A passionate could not let go for long. Although he was functional he did alienate himself? Help in the way he needed could not reach him. The last year he had kind of given up. If he did not have his son he would have been here shorter time.
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Escape
I'm so very sorry, my sympathies to you and your family
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Rufus Kohn
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Thank you so much Escape
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Xixixi 🍀❓
Oh, Rufus, I‘m so sorry for you and your family. My deep condolences. Forgive me my uncouth comment on another card, I only read this card some minutes ago. So young...😔
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Rufus Kohn
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Thank you Xixixi. I always read your comments in the utmost positive manner. So no worries
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Mich Millner (puhn)
That’s horrible
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Rufus Kohn
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Yes. That was a horrible end for him Mich. He had a tough life. Always going to the limit and seeking confrontation no matter what the outcome was. He wasn't scared of anybody. I even saw him pitch a fight with some Hels Angels once. Any to get defeated at the end by one of the smallest creatures, a bacteria, nobody could expect that.
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Jale
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I am so sorry for your loss, Rufus! All my thoughts and love are with you!
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Rufus Kohn
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I feel heartwarmed by all your comments
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🍼🏍🔥Garsbriel❓
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That's awful. I already lost my parents... My elder sister is in.a terrible health situation at a point she might decease in a few months. I'm prepared to that... But my little brother... I can't imagine that. I'm really sorry for you. My sincere condolences.
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Rufus Kohn
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Spend time with your sister. You will never regret
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🍼🏍🔥Garsbriel❓
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Rufus Kohn You're right Be strong my friend
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Righteous Pie Loving Joshua
Rufus I'm so sorry that you lost your brother to this. Thank you for posting about him.
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Rufus Kohn
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Thank you. And I am back on Sola. Not as frequently bet I am here.
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Steph
Oh Rufus, I’m so sorry.
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Nina One
Oh, your poor brother! And what a blow for you. My hugs and condolences. How are you holding up?
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Rufus Kohn
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It is all somewhat sureal. Even he suffered longtime we from alcoholism and tons of bad luck and he had kind of given up on life, nobody could see this coming. We have a big family now 8 kids left and we are keeping an eye on each other.
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Nina One
And you yourself, how are you feeling?
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Rufus Kohn
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Nina One, numb
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Nina One
When that wears off, if you need support let us know. In the meantime, please take care of yourself.
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Rufus Kohn
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Nina One, Thank you ❤️
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Rufus Kohn
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Nina One, I got a nice book for Christmas from my daughter, Bouddha's brain. All about neuro science and how the mind forms the brain. I will keep myself in good shape. I promise.
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Nina One
That’s good. You deserve to look after yourself.
Opie ♻️
So sad. Such a tragic way to go. I hope you and close ones find the support you may need. Good luck on your journey ahead.
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Rufus Kohn
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Thank you. It seems part of my journey is here on Sola.
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Hadi Abtahi💪💪💪
condolence In our country, when this happens, they say that all is returning to God. And this is the end of all human beings
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Rufus Kohn
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Sam kind of saw himself as the highest power. He had an enormous ego. I am sure he will agree that he nether was alone. I hope he is in a better place.
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Hadi Abtahi💪💪💪
Rufus Kohn, I hope he is in a better place
Jabba Ree 🌹
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My condolences, Rufus.
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Rufus Kohn
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You know that really helps. Thank you so much
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Fretless 🎸
Very sad to read your story. I really wished covernments and companies worldwide would invest more in developing new antibiotics than in weapons and other bullshit. Such cases makes me not only sad but also angry. It seems at least, that such cases increase more and more.
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Rufus Kohn
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It is a very common bacteria. Found in most of us in the through the cavity. Only when someone has bad health and contracts it under the skin it is very hard to stop in time. I wish governments would stop earning tax money on alcohol work harder to help the needy to kick that bad habit. As if humans don't suffer enough
Fretless 🎸
Rufus Kohn, one of the biggest problems are the multi resistant bacteria. This could cause millions of deaths in the future. Especially infections with streptococcus aureus lead to a fatal and mostly deadly infection. (necrotizing fasciitis) I really wonder why this happens more and more not only to immune suppressed people but also to you healthy people.
🚀 Josh
Oh fuck. So sorry Rufus. Life can be so shitty. I’m sure we’ll all do our best to wait for you. 🥃
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Rufus Kohn
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I feel that Josh, thank you
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Obtiks
Damn, take care man, We’re here, if we can help...
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Rufus Kohn
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Thanks I'll be here to
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JHel🌐🌶🍏
Rufus, that’s really sad. I hope friends and family can give you solace and strength
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Rufus Kohn
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Yes everyone around me is good people.
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Windy
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I’m very sorry. Sending you love and a big hug and please stop by anytime, even if it’s only for one day.
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Rufus Kohn
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Ik shall thanks Windy
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mallepietje
I'm so sorry for your loss. Take care, Rufus.
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Rufus Kohn
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Will do. Thank you mallepietje
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:Nawab khan
Sorry for your loss dear
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David Lu
I'm so sorry to hear your sad story. I hope some peace returns to you and your family ♥️
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5̀øÑ͜ ̕0f Æ̨ ğłīťç̴H
Losing a little brother.. damn that is very saddening. I'm very sorry for your loss. I wish you and your family the strength they need in these hours.
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Vale
✝️♥️ condolences
Rufus Kohn
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Thank you Vale
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Nina One
Rufus, how are you doing?
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Rufus Kohn
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It is the time of the year to clean out old stuff. So I am busy. I am of from work and when I get the chance I sleep, eat and go outside to recreate space in my head. All is good. The family is unsettles. Soma ask for aatention and loves which I kindly give when I can. I wisely don't try taking responsibility out of their hands as that is part of the coping prices. Thank you sweet Nina one for inquiring.
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Nina One
Sounds like you’re coping fine. Glad to hear it.
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